Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Ella Mary Pheby with the following comment:
Hi again, I'm doing the one name study of Pheby's and am interested in collating as much information as possible into the trees, so that I can share them wherever possible. Having photographed (only a few) gravestones myself I understand the real effort and time it takes in firstly even locating them, so I really appreciate your efforts. Living in the south your resource for further away graves is even more invaluable to me. Many thanks, Paula.